When I left college to pursue my first full-time job as a
marketing assistant, I stood at the precipice of my future. The world was
spread out before me with so many fields ripe with possibility. As the question
of my ultimate career path loomed, I pondered the nature of my vocational
pursuits. Should I chase the glimmering allure of cash and status? Or should I
follow my heart and create something meaningful?
Various pressures, both inward and outward, urged me relentlessly
to prioritize material wealth above all else. Still, well before I took my
first step on a college campus, I recognized the traditional university track
wasn’t for me. I had a powerful yearning to eschew a degree for a greater
cause, to create value for others in a way no one else could.
Even at age eighteen, I understood that the glittering temptress
of money was merely a reflection of value. If I could manifest abundant value
for others, the money would soon follow; at least, that’s what I came to
believe even before I ever attended my first college class.
How Could I Create Something Extraordinary?
I resolved to live my life with both passion and compassion, as well as a desire to create something extraordinary.
Of course, the adventure I embarked upon wasn’t without its trials. Life is
often full of many storms which test the mettle of even the most stalwart of
souls. Yet through all my struggles, I still clung to the belief that if I
could create something uniquely valuable, the riches would soon follow.
But, money was never my main focus in seeking earthly riches. In
fact, I didn’t want to amass a fortune purely of cash and assets. My dream was
to bring forth a treasure trove of hope, inspiration, and joy that others could
cherish. Unfortunately, that hope has been dashed more times than I’d care to
count.
In my darkest hours, as doubts threatened to engulf me, I
reminded myself that Life is about more than money,. But, because it was
something I was often lacking, too much of my focus was spent acquiring it. My
journey as a writer was always about illuminating the world with the radiance
of my creation. I sought to author works that would shine as beacons of light
in the shadows. I wished to etch my essence into the hearts of others. My
mission was to leave my mark on the world through creating value over time.
How Long Does it Take to Find Your Purpose?
I chose an arduous, winding path to authorship, stumbling countless times
along the way. But each time I faltered, somehow I found the strength to rise
again. I was fueled by the knowledge that it’s not the pursuit of worldly
riches that drives me. My chief motivation is the ongoing quest to create works
unparalleled in their beauty and significance, regardless of their commercial
value.
Any time someone reads my words, my thoughts inevitably become
intertwined with the lives of others, even if only for a moment. For me,
the true nature of wealth doesn’t come from gold, silver, or diamonds. My
satisfaction comes from the knowledge that I’m crafting things that can and
have touched the souls of those around me in a way that no one else could.
Now, here in my late thirties, I finally understand my purpose. I
continue to gaze out into the vast
expanse of possibility, and my heart swells with anticipation for the next chapter in my
journey. I often wonder about the legacy I’ll leave behind. It’s unfortunate that it took me
decades to learn that only by creating value for others in ways can \we find
the true measure of our worth.
How Do You Create Value Over Time?
Your career should not be about how you can make money at, but
rather, focused on how you can create value for people. After all, money is
just a reflection of the value that you create that people are willing to pay
you to acquire. So, how do you create value that compounds over time, like
interest from a certificate of deposit?
It all starts with being creative every day. Learn how to
identify a problem that you have, then find out who else may suffer from the
same issues. Once you know these things, work to find solutions, and make a
little progress on them every day. As long as you keep working, even if you
fail more than you succeed, it only takes one success to attain a lasting
victory.
Sure, you’ll make many mistakes. I often ponder the many I’ve
made until this point. But rather than mull over them at length, it’s far more
productive to learn what I can from my failures. Continue to learn and put
those lessons to good use, and you’ll find a way to create value for both
yourself and those around you.
While I could delineate the steps of creating value over time,
what I may have to offer won’t necessarily be the steps you should take
yourself. Each one of us has our own diverse skillsets, specialized knowledge,
and unique circumstances to draw our value from. I have plenty of weaknesses,
but I finally learned to acknowledge them, while simultaneously figuring out
ways to bolster my strengths.
These few pieces of advice are the best I can offer in a singular
essay. But, over time, I will share how I’ve learned to create value in my own way, something I
will always aim to do in my essays going forward. Hopefully, sharing the
lessons I’ve
learned will help you to find value in yourself the way I’ve learned to find it within
myself.
~ Amelia Desertsong
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